Sunday, 12 October 2008

Hunters, make the first move....

Who would you want to be….an attractive man with lots of chick checking out on you or a decent man with lots of female friend around...I come upon to this question when chatting with Mr Joel at Church Street Pub….it was so sudden actually that earlier he came home after a jam session with his band Gazzo….got out of his car and shouting my name from the main gate..signaling me to go out for a drink…darn it man…can you just chill at home..huhu..Well, I’m free enough to go out with him…but it just that I wanted to stay at home and relax..went down and had a short chat with him…I’m not really that kind of people who likes to spoil the mood and am not feeling happy to let him died because of boredom or sadness in his room…so I agreed with a term..ko bawa jalan ko belanja ah..there was no yes from him but a smile was good enough to tell me that it’s going to be his treat..haha...but at the end we shared the drink - we ordered 2 buckets…well it was fair and square.. and there were the stories…who is handsome and who is attractive..who is a natural charmer and etc…I don’t recall how we got to this topic but if I wasn’t mistaken..it was ignited when he started chatting about clubbing..chicks....haha….I’m not attractive nor expert in courting process but I despise the idea of reading a book in order to get laid..or to pick up a lady…same goes to women as well….why one needs to read this kind of shit then to make courting process more stressful…you should be enjoying doing this not pressuring yourself thinking on how should you perform on picking up your mate….

I’m kind of an observer myself..well, he kind of agreed that I would usually keep myself content and quiet at every moment until I got that enough adrenalin rush in my veins….thinking how beer can make some unattractive man like me to be a decent hunter is amazing huh…thankfully it didn’t turn me to be Mr Tom Cruise or Mr Brad Pitt…I would not want to imagine how the night ends..hahaha…I was trying to tell him that…why putting yourself into a stress zone with all these pressure from that book..why don’t you just be yourself and not trying to be someone who is not you at all…..if you want to ensure you have the 1st impression locked up..then you have to work it out…not by reading that book although it does helps to motivate your physiology…if you think you need to go clubbing to get laid with the knowledge coming from the book alone….it might work…wouldn’t it? It is a place for courting, flirting, swinging and etc….but I haven't seen any impressive 1st impression coming from that book in you...it sounds strong huh but that's what I'm seeing and have observed after he kept on telling me the book is really good and good and good and good.....at the end of the story.......I suggested to him to show me the book….see what the book has done to him..and to some of his fellow friends…I'm not saying reading the book is no good but letting your guts and mind controlled by this book ingoring the rules of attraction or nature would only make your life complicated....Mr Jew..ada compliment untuk kita dari hati suci si agukster..hahaha…never thought that I’m a good looking man pula…wahahaha..

Dear blogger, can you share or suggest on this case….
When you spot an attractive lady/man…what’s the best strategy of stealing her/her attention?

15 comments:

cLaiRe Bennet said...

hehe...sometimes the book doesn't really turn u into someone u r not ba..simply letting u knw that in ur case..a thing or two about women that u don't knw...

but as for me..i think men are sexy n very attractive when they are simply looking at u with interest but not really trying too hard...susah la mau explain...kau try n error la..hahaha

Wel^Beiolman said...

Claire....ms love ka ni..hahaha..sia setuju tu claire...d fact that the book actually making a good impression on lot of people and some of them mcm mau puja ni buku yg not good...they follow the book in out...how to start conversation..how to and to and to..so by the time they practice the method..its not actually coming from them..its coming from the book..good that we read to gain more knowledge still...do not make the book ur solution....if u read 100 of books sal ni tp u didnt resolved the issue within urself..then sia rasa sama jg kan..haha..

try and error..wahahaha..ni baru la..ko ingat sekali gagal ada chance kedua ka tu...mimang kom pun terus inda syok la sekali ada lelaki terai2 tp fail..balik p meja dia..relaks sikit lepas tu datang balik terai lg..hahaha...patut la ko selalu malu2 bila sia tinguk ko kan..hahahaha..looking with interest..si biggy pun tinguk ko mcm tu jg tu..hahhaa..

JerryInc said...

well, your advice 'just be yourself' is the best thing to do when coming up to someone. well, if he's looking for a one night stand, then he might wanna be someone else..but if he's looking for a relationship, being himself is just the way to go.

and make sure that the person he's into is not attached with anyone hahaha

cLaiRe Bennet said...

hahaha...budu jg la kau ni wel...sot..haha for me kan..the most charming n attractive thing is inside urself..something that other pple don't have...sy rasa mcmtu la..confident sja ba tu penting..jgn ja over la..;p

one more thing kan..if some pple think that i'm not good enuf for them kan..sy kasi biar ja tu org..ramai lg tu yg think that i'm the most wonderful n perfect person in the world for them...haha mcmtu movie sy tgk d ruma kamu tu hari...i don't want to spend my entire life having to please someone dia bilang tu..ngeh3

p/s aritu mcm sy tgk c biggy tgk c aguk gitu jg..buli la sda durang ni..haha

Wel^Beiolman said...

Jerryster....just be yourself juga ba ni key point dia kan jerry..haha...i may not know..human sinang mau berubah oso...at first mimang la with objective..along the way jadi lain sebab enjoying the game la ba tu...haha..lain la kalu suda tua mcm sia...mana buli main game bubut2 lagi..hahaha..

nasihat dari kilang bernas ni..make sure the person he's into is not attached..hahaha..kalu yg attached tu pula yg p menggoda yg inda terattached..mcm mana tu jerry..hahaha..

Wel^Beiolman said...

Claire..heehee...lets go through apa ko punya kata2 ni claire..hehe..yup...
1. how u decided that man is confident but not confident...menarik ni...
2. the most charming n attractive thing is inside urself..something that other pple don't have...apa yg org lain teda..dia ada 2 hati? buli pakai la sia rasa but if that something u jumpa in someone else pula....mesti katarik jg tu ginawo kan..then sampur pakej dia lagi...mesti lagi katarik..mendatangkan malapetaka jg ni tau..hahaha..
3. i don't want to spend my entire life having to please someone...mimang menarik ni tau..ko kena pengaruh movie sia suda kan..hahaha...yup sia sukung yg ni claire...butul2 sukung..hehe..
4. .if some pple think that i'm not good enuf for them kan..sy kasi biar ja tu org...ahahaha...mcm sia pernah dingar ni tau.....sepa yg pikir ko mcm tu claire..dia tu buta ka tuli..sinta itu buta ba bilang..kadang2 tuli jg bilang..hahaha...tp betul la..jan peduli lepas certain level la...kalu 1st sja suda give up inda bgs jg..no body is perfect jg kan..so kalu sia kena macam ni..sia rasa I will not give up..but i will if I know that i really cant..u might learn something and may not along the way...part of living that we learn new thing everyday...

si biggy mimang selalu horny sama si aguk..hehehe..

Wel^Beiolman said...

claire..pembetulan claire..sia mau tanya ba tu...
1. how u decided that man is confident but not OVER confident...
tetinggal tu OVER dia..haha..

cLaiRe Bennet said...

mmm..mari cni sy menjawap kesangsian kau ni..teda bir pun buli jg kluar crita gni kan..bgs ni..hahaha

1. if the guy keep is not paying attention to me..keep on blabbing about how he think that he's dat hot n charming n etc.....tu over la ba sda..apa lg kalau muka nda mcm brad pit mau ckp gitu..haha kalau tu lelaki confident..dia nda pyh sentuh pun apa2 psl apa yg plg menarik sm dia..simply showing it ataupun do something like he really mean it..then that wud be the end of life as i knew it..hahaha

2. apa yg sy maksudkan tu act bukan dr org lain yg sy nampak..tp buli pakai jg la..wat i was trying to say tu...something i hav..wat i can offer that some pple may not hav..or they may do hav it..but the point is..semua org ada keunikan dia sendiri ba...;p

tu sja la..yg lain kau setuju jg tu..haha

u knw...when u hav gone thru it all...well i'm sure u did..u just don't have this rush of adrenalin to do something that requires a great deal of bravery atau willpower ba...hehe mcm tiap masa malas sja ni..mo giv up sja..mcmtu la...

so..amcm? buli sda ko apply ni utk tu ppuan2 dlm list kau..haha

Wel^Beiolman said...

Claire...hehehe...jawapan yg memberansangkan la claire..mcm hilang2 suda migraine ko kan..hhaha...i'm really interested with point no1 and 2 la....mimang ko punya point bernas2 belaka..huhu..

rush of adrenalin..mesti ada bir ba tu kali..but thanks for sharing this...noted! Cheers to ur points claire..sia inda sanggup suda belawan sama ko pasal sinta ni..sia bukan expert or dr love..

ppn2 dalam list..hahahaha..sempat lagi ba kan...hahaha..

sweetie~ said...

ah yg penting hensem....klu dia master tu buku pun nda hensem teda guna jgk tu....wakakaka...men2 ja ba...

bah kana tgk la ba wat type of gals u r after.....klu yg d 'pub2' tu kana pakai len style....klu pompuan 'normal' yg bukan d pub2 tu style lain.....

but watever it is....when the time comes....you'll meet the rite person who can accept you for watever you are....no rules and explanation required! kau rumpang gigi ka, kau gumuk ka dia tatap akan sinta.....wakakaka!

cLaiRe Bennet said...

lawak jg la c sweetie...haha time will tell la seperti mama c wel bgtau dia kunun..haha

XiGorX said...

hey, seriously, you don't need any advice, do you? hehehe...Well, the right and perfect someone will eventually come into your life without notice...(if you don't already know..)..If it's meant to be, and God's will, you'll have a perfect and great relationship..and If it is not meant to be...eventhough she is not attached, or single...sampai mati pun nda dapat tu wel..jadi ko relax ja..and if you like or love someone, just let the person know..rejection is nothing...Good luck..hehehe

Wel^Beiolman said...

Mesh...napa mcm sia pula jadi subject penceritaan ni..hahaha..ok ok..sia pula mau ketawa ni tau..ya la mesh..sia mimang setuju apa ko cakap la...dont push it..dont force..sometimes they like it softly...and gently...ahaha..but sometimes with a little extra action will do..hahaha....
anyway...sia rasa mimang masing2 ada cara dan pandangan durang sendiri..tu la tu mesh..kalu mcm sia yg inda ensem..susa ba mau tarik perhatian sumandak..jd mimang susa sikit mau dapat sumandak la..tp sia usahakan la..hehe..thanks ah..

cLaiRe Bennet said...

hahaha..napa ba kau gete sja tiap masa ni wel? urang kasi nasihat kau menyimpang pla..haha kau ingat ni lagu tenacious d ka?

btw kan..sy ingat kita mau tulung c aguk ka ni? tapi sy rasa kau pun perlu pertolongan jg la...haha

Wel^Beiolman said...

Claire...hehe.ko ajar sia getek kan..sia mana getek kalo bukan pengaruh ko..hahaha..sia pun ingat si gukster punya objective ba ni..haha..ensem ba dia hari ni.beseri2 muka dia p bersukan sama gunting rambut..hahaha.....sia mimang perlu pertolongan ba tp sia mimang beiol suda..so inda dapat kana selamat suda la..selamat kan mereka yg masi buli la..hehe..