I just don't have the feeling YET...

Lately, many of my friends..close or not been asking..when are you going to get married or at least tie the knot..every time the question came out..I was like..??? wondering..?? what is it all about actually.. i don't get it..some people thought that marriage is everything in a relationship..more likely as a closure?why we need to get married as a closure anyway..can't I just be happy the way I am..the way I chose to be....and for the record I am SINGLE...am not thinking of looking for anybody nor getting laid...

Few years ago..I had a debate with my parents of whom I may get married and why I never care of whom that person would be...I gave them a simple but quite cruel answer at the time..it was..it's my life and it is me who is getting married and live with my decision..it sounded like I am a selfish person but that's that..I am the one who getting married..whoever that person person would be is my own decision..I know they're getting old and they wish they can be there at that special moment.i do understand that though..but at the end it is always about my life..I understood their kind intention..

Last month I was shocked to hear that my younger sis is getting engaged probably middle of this year..I spoke with her on the phone for about 40 minutes..it was early morning on 1 January 2008 when I was still little bit drunk..celebrating new year..I advised her not to rush things out..it is her life but I as a brother needs to do something out here..not persuade her to cancel the plan but give her as much as I could possibly give as a real brother..I've been always..we actually..have been practicing the concept of "mind your own business"..as long as it does not affect our parents and family...if it does somebody may have to stand up...she had just known this guy for like few months but who knows what His plan is...so least I can do for her was...I asked her to think it over and over..don't trust your emotion at this moment but trust what you desire or your own satisfaction..there is no regret and there is no turning point after all these..I hope she gets the message clear and loud..

So..back to my main point..marriage? Does each human being needs to get married...what are the criterias that made you think that you are ready to get married..what kinda person would made you to make that kinda decision in your life...is it what you really want in your life? These are some of the questions I asked myself..and I came up with several answers which brought me back to my true desire in life...I'd go for satisfaction and happiness..I can get these two without getting married..perhaps 70-90% but the main point here is..marriage is not everything in life...there is a bigger life out there that He want us to discover..

Live your life to the fullest

New Year 2008: What I’ve learned from ants

Its time to think about resolutions related to work! Anyone having a keen interest in the value and importance of work will by now have read everything and anything related to how to make work life more rewarding and of course interesting. My resolution is to do just that and make work a valued and appreciated part of my life...ba mimang la... lain la kalau ada RM1 million dalam bank..haha.. It’s a big part of our days (8-10 hours, 5 days a week...or some 6 days) and we need to give it a meaning that would be interesting to remember at the end of the year.

As for me..mentally, find 3 things that you don’t like about what you do now, perhaps 3 problems. Write them down in one column. Now make a column beside that one and write down the opposite of that word or problem. You have just given yourself three goals for the year. They are your work resolutions...i believe.... In 2008 resolve to strive for what you want to accomplish.

Share your goals with your spouse/partner or friends and let them help realize those goals either directly or indirectly.

When I was a kid for Christmas...this is just an illustration/metaphor OK... I got an ant farm, it was really just two pieces of plastic with earth in between. After excitedly setting it up, I had to wait until spring to find live ants to see what would happen. I learned about work, dedication, cooperation, persistence, innate knowledge and using all you’ve got to make your part of the universe the best it can be.

Those ants focused on the present, they lived for that moment and obviously for their needs and the needs of those around them...I'd never read any science fact nor story that an ant is a selfish creature though.

We are not too different. Look back at your 3 goals, note them, remember them and stay focused on those 3 words, those 3 opposites of your present problems. Your year will change. Your life will change not because you have made a resolution but because your actions and your work will become what it needs to be to reach those goals. Remember that "Work is action". The ants taught me that! Well..not only the ants but almost all successful people I've met in my life so far.They've never said that, to be a successful person one must be brilliant and highly educated. Least you can do to achieve your goals is work little harder. I did just that in 2007 and I've been rewarded fairly good.

I'd like to wish you success in all your endeavors whether it is caring in the moment with all you’ve got for that child in front of you or whether its building something or tearing down what you’ve started and going at it again. What ever your work, know why you do it, what it gives you and what you give it and then get going on your goals. It’s all about action in the present.

Best wishes for a happy, healthy, prosperous new year 2008!

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Thirsty Traveller

I went to Thailand few weeks ago..(3rd - 7th Dec). I didn't go there with my friend though as we had planned earlier this year to go either Philippines or Thailand but I ended up alone in Thailand. No worries as it was an amazing trip and holiday. It would be more fun if we all can make it.

3rd December, departed from Penang International Airport about 10:30 am and arrived in Suvarbhumi Airport Thailand, the newly opened airport which is larger than KLIA although you have to ride on a bus to get to the plane. Once arrived, I took a bus to Pattaya straight away (Counter is on Level 1 at Gate 8). To cut the story short, I stayed in Sawasdee Pattaya Hotel for 3 nights then back to Bangkok on the 6th.

Talking about Pattaya, it is a very nice place to visit. I was and still interested with their night life. Not that I love to mingle nor I'm a pervert but it suits people who loves to have women around them...again not me..I'm not saying that you can get any women you wanted there but I'm sure that most of us knew that poverty is a huge problem in Thailand excluding their currency rate compared to others (basically, RM10.00 is equal to TBH100.00) Since the night life is very interesting and very open, one thing you may have to bear in mind is a genuinenity. It is because that at several known places in Pattaya's night clubs are flooded by pretty ladies called 'Lady Boy'. I can assure you that it is not a very easy task to differentiate between genuine woman and lady boy though. So please be very careful unless you wanted to try that kind..hehe..if you really do, there is a street called as "Walking Street" where most of the clubs are providing lady boy's services. It would be much easier if you can get somebody to give you some advise at the exact moment. I'd encouraged that you befriend with uniformed waiter/waitress, bartender or directly to their supervisor because most of these lady boys are bounded to the clubs. Having said that, you would have to pay a "leave charge" upon leaving with them either lady boys or genuine ladies and again excluding the charges you're going to pay them later on. Where your money goes - drinks for you and your partner, "leave charge" and service charge. Based on my short holiday experience, it is best to have fun or spend your night out at a normal and decent club. I was thankful that one of the hotel staff from where I stayed was very friendly towards me..perhaps... and able to speak a decent English. I spent my 1st night out with him at his favourite club, about 2oo meters from the hotel. The place is more likely as a bistro restaurant with live band music every night. He explained these kinda things to me and offered me a genuine woman as my companion... Because of him also, I was able to have a chat with some of the waitresses..it is not easy to have a chat with them because not much of them can really understand and speak a decent English..the most common words they would usually use and familiar are "from", "where", "yes", "no", "come", "go", "call", "married", "single", "age", "work" and several other but less than 30 words on my observation. Some of them of course can speak decent English and logically it works just right for them to communicate with their clients....

There are so much to talk about Thailand but it is best if you go there yourself to enjoy their culture and night life. Whilst I was in Pattaya, I rented a bike for THB150.00 per day which was rm15 per day for 3 days. It was easier for me to move around because the town is not really that big but if you you spend the whole day walking, I wouldn't mind as long as you don't complaint. I went to Water World Theme Park and tried the Rollercoaster which I almost cried for my life. It was awesome and damn scary..haha..if you love sun tanning, I'd recommend you to go to Jomtien Beach which is just a walking distance from the Water Theme Park I mentioned. I was planning to try the Bungee Jumping but after I went up-down the Adrenalin Rush tower..I've lost my daredevil spirit. I will next time!

Bangkok? Nothing much to talk about this place because I've only spent 1 night day and most of the time I was in a shopping complexes. Bangkok is the place to shop only. I'd prefer to spend more time in Pattaya compared to Bangkok. The people in Pattaya is a lot more nicer than in Bangkok. Maybe it is a big city similar to KL where most people only think about themselves...next trip..would probably Philippines. Confirmed trip would be Singapore for the F1 Grand Prix (Night Race)....

Will I ......again?

Horny is defined as desirous of sexual activity;sexually aroused or marked by or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest. What about flirt(y) then? Flirt(y) is defined as making playfully romantic or sexual overtures. These words have other meanings but they're used mostly and likely in these kinda contexts.

Well..few days ago I'd received a text from an old friend..She has been asking me load of questions through SMS. Actually, I have never expected she would though..there was a subtle incident few years back when I was still 'young'..haha..Sorry the exact time has to be made secret..a'ight..back to the story..we had a crush but I/we thought time was not meant to be..we both agreed and we did best not to continue..you know when you watch bollywood movies..without the dancing and singing scenes..there is always a problem to be with your 'love' one..hehe..

For the record, we were not even a couple back then..duh... just a very close friend indeed and in need even though we were actually far to each other..these few days..we're texting a lot..nothing special but the feeling (Crush) has started to grow again..and sometimes..because of the age as well as experience (i believe)..making silly jokes (flirting) is inevitable..this has brought to more details questions and desire..darn! This issssssssss making me horny...haha...It is fun and enjoying to have such friend again especially when it comes from the opposite sex, chatting and sharing about your personal life or thoughts with no boundary at all..you know sometimes (most of the time la actually) when a group of guy hang out chatting, most of their facts are one sided facts..not all but some la..it happens to female as well (don't think I don't know what you ladies talk about ah..)..it is common though that male and female have problem to understand each other..I had the same situation before where I though I found someone very special to me but it was not meant to last..it was not her or anybody fault..I'd prefer to think it was my fault rather than blaming others for what you can't get and lost..those were great moments and would it be cherished forever?..Yes I will

OK..although at this point, I've not thought about any relationship but of course when the time has come..and if God's will..not even me able to avoid what He has planned..I'm grateful that we started to keep in touch again after several years gone missing....and thought it is best to let the time decides everything..we're still good 'distance' friend..

I'm happy with the current situation and hoping the friendship will last as long as it takes...hoping for the greater good?..we all need hope and we will always hoping for the greater things in our life..