Hunters, make the first move....

Who would you want to be….an attractive man with lots of chick checking out on you or a decent man with lots of female friend around...I come upon to this question when chatting with Mr Joel at Church Street Pub….it was so sudden actually that earlier he came home after a jam session with his band Gazzo….got out of his car and shouting my name from the main gate..signaling me to go out for a drink…darn it man…can you just chill at home..huhu..Well, I’m free enough to go out with him…but it just that I wanted to stay at home and relax..went down and had a short chat with him…I’m not really that kind of people who likes to spoil the mood and am not feeling happy to let him died because of boredom or sadness in his room…so I agreed with a term..ko bawa jalan ko belanja ah..there was no yes from him but a smile was good enough to tell me that it’s going to be his treat..haha...but at the end we shared the drink - we ordered 2 buckets…well it was fair and square.. and there were the stories…who is handsome and who is attractive..who is a natural charmer and etc…I don’t recall how we got to this topic but if I wasn’t mistaken..it was ignited when he started chatting about clubbing..chicks....haha….I’m not attractive nor expert in courting process but I despise the idea of reading a book in order to get laid..or to pick up a lady…same goes to women as well….why one needs to read this kind of shit then to make courting process more stressful…you should be enjoying doing this not pressuring yourself thinking on how should you perform on picking up your mate….

I’m kind of an observer myself..well, he kind of agreed that I would usually keep myself content and quiet at every moment until I got that enough adrenalin rush in my veins….thinking how beer can make some unattractive man like me to be a decent hunter is amazing huh…thankfully it didn’t turn me to be Mr Tom Cruise or Mr Brad Pitt…I would not want to imagine how the night ends..hahaha…I was trying to tell him that…why putting yourself into a stress zone with all these pressure from that book..why don’t you just be yourself and not trying to be someone who is not you at all…..if you want to ensure you have the 1^st impression locked up..then you have to work it out…not by reading that book although it does helps to motivate your physiology…if you think you need to go clubbing to get laid with the knowledge coming from the book alone….it might work…wouldn’t it? It is a place for courting, flirting, swinging and etc….but I haven't seen any impressive 1st impression coming from that book in you...it sounds strong huh but that's what I'm seeing and have observed after he kept on telling me the book is really good and good and good and good.....at the end of the story.......I suggested to him to show me the book….see what the book has done to him..and to some of his fellow friends…I'm not saying reading the book is no good but letting your guts and mind controlled by this book ingoring the rules of attraction or nature would only make your life complicated....Mr Jew..ada compliment untuk kita dari hati suci si agukster..hahaha…never thought that I’m a good looking man pula…wahahaha..

Dear blogger, can you share or suggest on this case….
When you spot an attractive lady/man…what’s the best strategy of stealing her/her attention?